Ellen Decker


“Truth is stranger than fiction,

but it is because fiction is obliged to stick to possibilities; truth isn’t.”

Mark Twain

Diary of a Third-Culture Kid

Missions, Miracles, and Mischief in the Last Kingdom of Africa

Book cover of 'Diary of a Third-Culture Kid' by Ellen Decker, featuring three children on the front with the subtitle 'Missions, Miracles, and Mischief in the Last Kingdom of Africa.'

Diaries remember what was.

Cherish what is.

Aspire to adventures yet to come.

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Flag of Eswatini featuring a red background, blue and yellow horizontal stripes, and a black and white shield with spears and feathers.

Journey into the World of Belonging.


All human beings desire a place to belong.

This yearning especially thrums in the core of every adult Third-Culture Kid.


A Third-Culture Kid is an island. And also the United Nations.

For too long, TCKs have believed that because our childhoods straddled the world, we are forever wandering nomads.

Missing a certain dialect, scent, rhythm, or sunset sky has too often made us feel we are neither here nor there.

Our suitcase of stories frequently remains closed for fear of being labeled unfit to travel through life.


Stories stitch together our identity, our longing, our meaning.

Not every TCK Diary has the same stories, but we all have some common “chapters.”

Misplaced humor. Hidden immigrant. Too many goodbyes. Confused loyalties.

Global horizons. Linguistic skills. Purpose-driven. Resilient. Cultural chameleons.



Come in from the edges of the map.

Stylized world map in orange against a green background, with radiating lines creating a sense of depth and movement.

If your roots are in the sky, your heritage spread across the globe –

If your heart has been split by borders, your ancestry by languages –

If there is the constant ache of elsewhere, wrapped in beauty, lodged in your very being –


Diary of a Third-Culture Kid. Your Passport to Belonging.

Poignant, witty, unflinching, Diary of a Third-Culture Kid is a panoramic immersion in cross-cultural living spanning the globe; the deep longing for love and truth and belonging; and several profoundly unforgettable miracles that will resonate long after the last page is read.

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